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Abraham Caleb Brokaw

1773 – 1826

Abraham Caleb Brokaw married **Mariah Stryker** in a Dutch Reformed church in Somerset County, New Jersey, on 8 January 1792, and they had a large family of whom **Cornelia**, born 15 March 1809, is a direct ancestor of Gina Cacace. The family moved to Warren Township in Jefferson County, Ohio, in 1823, taking seven children and leaving three behind in New Jersey, and Abraham died there in 1826. **Two independent secondary sources — a Find a Grave biography and a Geni chart built by other people for another purpose — agree on him, on the 1826 death and on his daughter Cornelia.** Neither is a record, and his middle name Caleb comes only from the chart.

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Abraham Caleb Brokaw married **Mariah Stryker** in a Dutch Reformed church in Somerset County, New Jersey, on 8 January 1792, and they had a large family of whom **Cornelia**, born 15 March 1809, is a direct ancestor of Gina Cacace. The family moved to Warren Township in Jefferson County, Ohio, in 1823, taking seven children and leaving three behind in New Jersey, and Abraham died there in 1826. **Two independent secondary sources — a Find a Grave biography and a Geni chart built by other people for another purpose — agree on him, on the 1826 death and on his daughter Cornelia.** Neither is a record, and his middle name Caleb comes only from the chart.

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Recorded as: Abraham C. Brokaw

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Andrew John Leahey’s spouse's great-great-great-great-great-grandparent (by marriage)

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  • New Jersey
  • Somerset, Somerset County, New Jersey

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Biography on the Find a Grave memorial for Cornelia Stryker Brokaw Stilwell (memorial 295247056)

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Geni relationship chart: Gina D. Leahey and Monica Potter, fifth cousins once removed (created 3 March 2025)

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Citation: Geni relationship chart: Gina D. Leahey and Monica Potter, fifth cousins once removed (created 3 March 2025). View source (geni.com)

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What we still don't know

  • [A CURIOSITY, AND A USEFUL ONE] A Geni chart makes Gina Cacace and the actress **Monica Potter** **fifth cousins once removed**, through **Abraham Caleb Brokaw** and his wife Maria. The arithmetic checks: Gina is seven generations below Abraham and Monica six, which is fifth cousins with one remove. The connection rests on a user-built tree and is not evidence of anything. **What is worth having is the corroboration.** That chart was built by strangers, for another purpose, and independently of the Find a Grave biography this archive used — and the two agree on Abraham Brokaw, on his death in 1826, on Cornelia's dates of 1809 to 1907, and on a son named **John**. Two independent secondary sources agreeing is not proof, but it is a great deal better than one.
  • **His marriage of 8 January 1792**, which is the record that would put this whole generation on evidence rather than on a volunteer's account. Dutch Reformed registers for Somerset County are the place to look.
  • His death in Jefferson County, Ohio, in 1826.
  • His own parents, and what the C stands for.
  • **This is a New Netherland Dutch family, and the surnames say so on their own.** Brokaw is the anglicised Bourgeois of a Huguenot family long settled among the Dutch of Somerset County; Stryker is Strycker; and the names standing around this household in the records — **Polhemus, Vroom, Van Dyck, Van Deventer, Ditmars** — are all New Netherland families. The marriage of Cornelia's parents in 1792 was in a **Dutch Reformed church**. Franklin Township in Somerset County was one of the densest Dutch settlements in New Jersey. That is worth stating plainly, because it is the only non-British, non-Irish, non-Italian, non-German strand anywhere in this side of the family, and it is easy to miss behind a name as English-looking as Stilwell.

References

  1. [1] Biography on the Find a Grave memorial for Cornelia Stryker Brokaw Stilwell (memorial 295247056)Back to citation 1
  2. [2] Geni relationship chart: Gina D. Leahey and Monica Potter, fifth cousins once removed (created 3 March 2025)Back to citation 2

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